So if it was not for me to food shop, we would not even have food for me to cook so that she can eat.Do you know how many times I been working my butt off outside on the house from 10 am to 7 pm to come into the house to see her still in bed watching TV rather than having a nice thought of starting dinner or setting up so that I do not have to when I come in from outside.it has been like this for quite some time, however, when I mention it to her she just starts yelling and arguing that this is normal, she is stressed and that why should she clean rooms that she is never in (meaning she should only have to clean the bedroom because that is where she hangs out all the time). it is unfair for me to do the bills, clean, cook, maintenance, chores and all the other areas of life (service people, telephones calls, emails, etc.) while you do not lift a finger to help unless it is something she really wants to do. We have no kids now, but I wonder what would happen when we do have a child.

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However, she will come home, lays in bed and watch TV until I come home after the gym after work and make dinner because if I ever waited for her, we would never eat. On the weekends, she will do the same thing, lay in bed and watch TV all day.

She says that watching TV dis-stress hers, but I think it is so much that it is hurting her more than helping her.

She has not motivation for anything and she does not even hold up her end of the bargain as being a wife in that no sex, no help in chores and at times like to dictate.

She does not help in cooking or cleaning, she does not even go shopping for food as she states that she hates it.

While I was just implying that you do nothing now, how can I think otherwise when we do have a kid?

Originally posted by Chenzo720: I am not sure who else is experiencing what I am, but my wife is lazy and I hate it.

Do you know how many times I been working my butt off outside on the house from 10 am to 7 pm to come into the house to see her still in bed watching TV rather than having a nice thought of starting dinner or setting up so that I do not have to when I come in from outside. Not many people like doing mundane tasks but they need to get done. I said we can seek help in any format with medication, doctors or even change the way we live.

I am not sure who else is experiencing what I am, but my wife is lazy and I hate it.

Now, I am not implying that she is lazy that she doesn't work out and be active, but lazy in the sense that nothing ever gets done and procrastinates on everything, yet, she sits back and expects me to handle everything while complaining it does not get down right, but you won't she her getting off her lazy ass to do it. Although I love her, her laziness is really starting to piss me off to the point I don't want to be in the same room with her.